Four Handed Massage for Men
Would you like to relax, quieten your mind, and open your body to pleasure?
Would you like to experience the relief of not needing to initiate, reciprocate or check your performance, and actually not needing to ‘do’ anything?
This session is all about YOU and about you receiving.
We know that for some men this might feel slightly awkward or unusual due to habits of mutual touch. Such feelings are normal and are welcomed.
Men come to these sessions for many reasons:
- Feeling overworked and stressed, needing time to relax, to let go of thinking about the concerns of the day
- Looking for something beyond the mundanity of everyday life
- Curious about Tantra, sensual or erotic massage
- Experiencing a lack of ‘receiving touch’ in life, and wanting the nourishment and care that this provides
- Because it sounds more interesting than a sports massage – and it is!
- Wanting more pleasure in their life, that includes their sexuality, and receiving this from professionally trained practitioners
- They enjoy being naked and want to receive massage without all the usual towel management of typical massage sessions
- They want to be able to relax and not have to worry about whether they get (or don’t get) an erection
We welcome men of all ages, backgrounds, sexual orientation, shapes, and sizes to our sessions. Welcome to your new life!
Enjoy Being Honoured with Loving Sensual Touch
Receive loving sensual touch which is deeply honouring and not all about the genitals and sexual stimulation. Though the genitals are included, if desired, for a full body experience they are not the focus of this session. (Note that Tantric massage options are offered by Harmony in her one-to-one Devotional Tantra Massage session for suitable clients only.) Know that you also may keep your underwear on if you so choose.
Arousal is welcomed as a normal response to sensual pleasure in life, not something to be denied or shut down. So, with erection or without erection, all of you is welcome here. See FAQ page for more details.
We know that stress is held in the body and blocks our ability to experience pleasure.
This four handed massage (sometimes known as four hands massage) session is about letting go of those blocks, opening to deep relaxation and to whole-body pleasure, taking you to another world and another dimension in this haven beyond daily life.
Co-creating Your Own Massage Experience
For those who are experienced with receiving Tantric massage this session may be very different. This is because our intention is to offer the best possible experience FOR YOU as an individual, each and every time.
Choose between the ‘Goddess Experience’ with two women or the ‘Energy Balance Experience’ with one man and one woman. Each has its own distinct flavour so come and try one or both, and see what you discover.
Working with an integrated approach of bodywork, energy work, breath, somatic experiencing, sound, words and eye contact can lead to a deeper intimacy with yourself, your body-mind and your heart, increase your vitality and deepen your connection to a sense of embodied presence.
The make-up of our team enables us to bring different qualities to the massage depending on your purpose or intention for the experience. You are welcome to discuss this choice with Harmony prior to making a booking.
The opportunity for a man to receive massage from both a female and male practitioner together brings a unique flavour and enables you to explore a range of experiences in a safely held space. We think of this as an energy balancing experience since it works with the polarity of masculine and feminine energies contained within the body and helps to achieve a healthy balance between these energies or life-forces.
You are always at choice, and we work carefully with consent and boundaries. Some men benefit from the opportunity to enjoy sensual and supportive touch from another man in a world where there are many taboos and fears around male sexuality.
One of our intentions is to support you to have the experiences you want, both on the massage table and in life. We deeply value when people tell us during a session about what they do or do not like and we will encourage you to explore this.
Although our sessions are much about relaxation and letting go, we will encourage you to be as engaged as possible as this can bring full aliveness to your body.
We may speak to you during the session, encouraging breath and guiding you to check in with your mind and your body sensations. We find that this can support a more integrated body-mind experience with long-lasting benefits that can assist way beyond the massage couch.
Sessions can be booked for 2 or 3 hours and this allows time for connecting, setting intentions and stating boundaries before the treatment and grounding and sharing afterwards.
Please feel free to express a preference for either a male and female practitioner or two female practitioners. The choice between these options brings a different dynamic and flavour to your massage experience and it can be useful to have a conversation about what you want from the massage before deciding.
We suggest that clients try one session and then we can discuss booking a series of sessions where there is an opportunity to deepen into the experience and process.
Sessions are currently held in a warm, comfortable and safe space near Totnes in Devon.
We also offer sessions at events and retreats.
The investment for a Four Handed Massage in a two-hour session is £235. [Please note when considering the pricing, that it is based on there being two experienced practitioners devoting their full attention to you for two hours, so comparing to 4 times the cost of a standard holistic massage.]
A three-hour session would be £345.
These times allow for introduction, discussing practicalities, setting intentions and clarifying boundaries. We also allow time for integration after the massage and space for sharing if desired. For a two-hour session you can expect at least 90 minutes receiving the massage itself, depending on your intention and what you bring to the session.
Concessionary & Taster Sessions
Each month we offer concessionary sessions at a discounted rate for those with lower disposable incomes. This would typically be one session available each month and if these circumstances apply to you, please feel free to contact Harmony and explore this opportunity.
Please only request this option if it is applicable to your circumstances as we want to make this available to those who would otherwise be unable to attend.
In addition, we occasionally arrange taster days which consist of a series of back-to-back, one-hour sessions. If this appeals to you as a way of exploring whether this style of massage will suit you, please contact Harmony to register your interest.
Booking and Cancellation
Please contact Harmony to arrange an initial consultation or to book your session – email: firstname.lastname@example.org
We aim to get back to you within 48 hours of your email, or within 72 hours over a weekend.
Please note that we ask for a 50% deposit on booking with the balance to be paid on the day of the session. If a cancellation is made more than 48 hours before the start of the session, there is an option for a refund or to rebook.
If a cancellation is made within 48 hours of the session time, 25% of the full fee is charged, and within 24 hours 50% is charged.
If the session is cancelled on the day of the booking the full fee is payable. If you have a genuine emergency, please do let us know and let’s have a conversation.
See here for further information about Terms & Conditions, Privacy and Cancellation Policies.
Couples and Individual Sessions
Visit our ‘For Couples’ page to read about the various options for couples massage that we offer. Why not treat you and your partner to one of these four handed couples massage sessions and explore deeper levels of intimacy?
What better way to give yourselves the ultimate treat on holiday, on a date night or celebrating a special occasion. A beautiful way to celebrate your Wedding Anniversary in sensual pleasure and deep intimacy.
See here for individual Devotional Tantra Massage sessions or, if you are interested to learn and experience more about Tantra, read about Tantra Experience Days with Harmony as your guide. See our ‘Other Offerings’ page for information on all of these services.
“It felt shamanic, sensual and so deeply held. Your holding of the space and the intention at the beginning dropped me into a deep space.”
“I found the breathing techniques that you offered at the beginning really useful to guide my experience…so I was engaged, and it felt interactive. I could either raise or calm my energy throughout, using my breath.”
“I loved that I was welcomed to express my needs, and these were received with gentle thank you’s and your immediate response. I also appreciated how often you seemed to be intuitively picking up on what was needed.”
“The variety of techniques you utilised was sensory bliss. It was utterly seamless, I couldn’t tell who was doing what or who was where. You really are tantric goddesses.”
“Although the massage wasn’t ‘sexual’ by traditional definition, I discovered new dimensions of my sexual energy within the context of this massage. Your ability, both of you, to hold polarities was evident all the way through. I felt I was surfing the ethereal whilst totally grounded in my body. Wow!”
“I have accessed a rawness, a vulnerability that I did not think was possible. I feel open.”
“Really touched by the beauty, power of feminine, gentleness with such love. A unique experience. What you are doing here is really special, with loving touch.”
“I feel so alive. It felt so amazing to feel my sexual energy, my adult, whilst feeling met in total love in my inner child and adolescent. The feeling of love was profound.”
“It is like you are one.”
“Like looking up into the eyes of two angels, being held by the Divine Feminine. The feeling of unconditional love was so complete, greater than anything in my previous experience.”
“Thank you for yesterday…and thank you so much for checking in. It’s been a while since I connected with the spirituality of all this.”
“I liked the checking in. I was able to really go deep and connect with a lot of stuff.”
“I felt safe…the two of you are wonderful caring women. Your grace, attention and love were evident and more than welcome.”
"Hi Harmony, just wanted to thank you again. I feel so calm and energised and strong today"