For Men - from Masturbation to Ecstatic Self-pleasuring
Men – Do You Know How to Masturbate?
Of course you do, what a silly question you might say – “I’ve been masturbating for years!”
However, what we learn to do (often from a young age!) and what we habitually practise, isn’t necessarily allowing us to reach our ultimate ecstatic potential.
In fact, many of us are stuck in routine patterns that we can’t necessarily see, and even when we do see them, we are not sure how to change them.
Many men, if not most men, who I speak to tell me they only practice a jerking or ‘piston’ type motion along the shaft of their penis, of increasing speed and friction until they reach the “goal” of ejaculation.
It’s intense, exciting and a relief, and it feels good in that moment. Yes?
However, do you recognise any of the following:
Immediate drop in energy?
Low mood states?
Immediate loss of libido with your partner, you roll over and fall asleep!
Addiction to this high, so you want to go at it again and again?
As you get older, it takes longer to recover?
This way of masturbation over time can also lead to loss of sensation in the penis and contribute to erectile and ejaculation problems now or later in life.
Additionally, in a sexual encounter with another person, this pretty much always means “game over” AND this is women’s BIGGEST SEXUAL COMPLAINT!
What if you masturbated differently and this gave you longer lasting, expanded full-body pleasure without the depletion?
What if ejaculation was not the goal, or at least not the only goal?
What if you could last longer in bed with your partner?
What if that lasting longer opened the doorway for expansive and more long-lasting orgasms for your partner where you were the catalyst for her extraordinary pleasure?!
What if that was your norm?
In a Four Handed Massage we touch all of the body, and we include the genitals like any other part of the body.
In a 3hr Devotional Tantra Massage this experience is lengthened and enhanced to experience the rise and fall of sensations throughout the body.
In Masturbation Pleasure Coaching, in person or online, I teach you some new ways of masturbating or ‘self-pleasuring’ and we build a new routine so that you can achieve lasting and erotic ‘Tantric pleasure’ for you and your current or future partner(s).
What would that be like for you?
For more details send me an email and if you would prefer to talk I can book you in for a free 20 minute call telephone call with me.